A few days ago they were preparing for an event, excited. Perhaps the nerves were high, even very high. Maybe that's where the fights stemmed from. You know, like they do at any event. But they didn't plan for what happened.<\/p>\r\n
After the incident, they were already "separated." Some people weren't afraid to take it a step further and say that the problems between them had been going on for a long time. Others even knew how to tell why it happened - and that they got divorced because of another juicy story.<\/p>\r\n
You were there. Maybe you enjoyed it. Maybe you didn't. What's certain is that this event will be etched in your memory forever. It's the day your wife turned her back on you and walked away.<\/p>\r\n
Why? Because someone knew that you were the reason for their quarrels, of the "separated ones." Today, even those who didn't know you know who you "really" are, or think they know you. It doesn't matter who determined the "really.".<\/p>\r\n
And then it reminded you of your couple of friends. Today they probably no longer receive the title.<\/p>\r\n
What are their names? About a year ago, they went on vacation. They left the kids with Grandma and went to clear their heads, after a long time of not spending just the two of them together. Like any couple.<\/p>\r\n
Just like you, they tried to take advantage of every moment, and tried to immortalize their couple's vacation. The happiness and relaxation with their simple, but no less faithful camera. Every moment. You probably understand their frustration when they realized that the camera was lost, or stolen...<\/p>\r\n
You know whose hands the photos ended up in. The next day they became known to the entire world as the "most awesome" couple. The most shameless, and the craziest. Real hacks!<\/p>\r\n
The rabbi and the principal at the school agreed on this, as did all the people on the street. Yesterday, that is, once upon a time, he was an important avrech in the neighborhood...<\/p>\r\n
The new social enemy<\/b><\/p>\r\n
It made you a little funny too, this sad story.<\/p>\r\n
Maybe because you've already forgotten what happened a few weeks ago. When your best friend's life was destroyed in an instant. A simple message, but her world was shattered for her and her family. Her brother, the one who was there, in Gaza, will not return. How lucky she was that she knew about it before everyone else! At least, when the city officer's representatives arrived, she was already ready to receive them. Maybe pour them a glass of cold water that would make their difficult task easier, because she already knows.<\/p>\r\n
Life stories, although short, but life. Today, I too ruin celebrations. Sorry.<\/p>\r\n
What do they have in common? Destruction, lack of thought and consideration, curiosity, backbiting and gossip. Maybe a little evil.<\/p>\r\n
In short, a social enemy called "WhatsApp.".<\/p>\r\n
By mistake, quite by mistake, I was exposed to the 'Niece groups'. Those who exploit a public platform that is too good for them. WhatsApp could have been a perfect tool for sharing experiences and distributing content (I said, content), but some curious people preferred to ignore it.<\/p>\r\n
What happened to us? Where have we come to? How did we turn a good friend into an enemy?<\/p>\r\n
As you probably understood, the shock came when a video was released documenting the difficult moments of a family in crisis. Yes, circumcision, Elad. Someone even thought it appropriate to release 'Circumcision Part 2'. The sequel. As if this were an entertaining sketch, and morbid curiosity wouldn't allow them to miss the next episode.<\/p>\r\n
But, unfortunately, the disease did not start there. It began a long time ago and, like wildfire, continues to spread, leaving destruction and irreversible damage in its wake.<\/p>\r\n
Although details have been changed and even exaggerated in the stories above, they are all based solely on reality.<\/p>\r\n
Not just in the ad. Not just in the stories.<\/p>\r\n
What if it's your sister's camera that was lost?<\/b><\/p>\r\n
When private photos of a couple's vacation were published and the people photographed were humiliated, with things that there is no reason to be ashamed of, but there is a reason to hide. Simply because whoever found the camera felt like he was becoming a more interesting person. Without thinking that it could have been his camera.<\/p>\r\n
When the names of casualties in the last war were published, without considering the fact that the families had not yet received the hard news, just to be the first to know. Sometimes the information was also wrong and families thought they had lost their son or brother, just for fun.<\/p>\r\n
When you spread gossip, videos, unverified rumors (even if they were, what does it matter?) and in an instant you ruin someone's life and image, just to be "cool" in front of the guys. Without thinking about disrespecting the person, without arguing for the right, just arguing. "Niess.".<\/p>\r\n
I immediately try to understand who is behind the screen and presses "send.".<\/p>\r\n
What is he thinking about? Or rather, does he even notice what he's not thinking about? What goes through the mind of someone who photographs or films such things and distributes them?<\/p>\r\n
Today it's funny, tomorrow it could be you, me, your father or your sister. What about your children?<\/p>\r\n
An image built for years, but destroyed in an instant. No amount of curiosity or gossip in the world is worth this moment.<\/p>\r\n
In a very small number of weeks, we will pray to the Creator and ask Him to forgive, to be considerate, to give us more time so we can make amends.<\/p>\r\n
We will also be considerate, we will not cooperate, we will not "pass on" when there is no point.<\/p>\r\n
Today it's something foreign to you. Tomorrow it could be you.<\/p>\r\n
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